The last post I made was a little over a year ago. I had freshly moved to Texas and made a post about everything just falling into place for me. Boy, that did not age well.
Short recap, I had moved to Downtown Dallas, adopted my son Scrappy, loved the church I was attending and started seeing a guy that seemed to check all the boxes. This relationship ended up being the worst one I’ve had so far. I was not only set back financially and emotionally, but it took me away from my connection with God. Connection with myself and the things that made me happy, like writing.
But going back to the present, I am currently living in my hometown. Close to my loved ones and friends. Within two months of being here I had landed a better job than I did in Texas, which was my biggest worry since I just got up and left. I feel the biggest weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I can only thank God for it. When he tells you to move, you drop everything and trust Him.
I am far from perfect, and the Lord knows I make a lot of mistakes. But my faith in Him is always unwavering and He knows that.
I put myself in a relationship that drained me spiritually. Dating a narcissist can cause huge amounts of trauma in a person.
"How many narcissists does it take to screw in a lightbulb? None, they don't use lightbulbs, they use gaslighting!"
Narcissism is excessive self-involvement that makes a person ignore others' needs.
Trust me, I had no idea of what this was until I was in deep. Social media has made this disorder more common. With the many options in dating, plus the attention people get from posting, the
feeling of grandiose in people have sky rocketed.
I just want to raise a little bit of awareness on this matter. Both men and women can be narcissist and its one of the biggest reasons dating is the way it Is now.
Let me tell you. Not everyone is the same. Not everyone is a narcissist. You will be able to trust again, you will find the right partner for you. Now you know what a real loving relationship is because you know exactly what the opposite of that is.
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